People and motion are the only two constants in a city. Everyone has to reach somewhere and everyone is in a hurry to get there. The fight to be the first is a rough one and rush hour does a brutal job of weeding out the weakest link. And where there’s motion — there’s noise. It’s hard to escape that dull background noise in a city. It could be the honk of a car or music on the radio or loud chatter. Sometimes it could be your thoughts struggling to be heard over it all. Yet, we’ve always lived in a city. The only true escape that we’ve ever had — is through our travels.
“It is better to lie quiet in the mud than to be disturbed on good bedding.”
― Rudyard Kipling
I’ve realised that silence is hard to find in our world today. You have to learn to become an escape artist of sorts and not be afraid of being alone in the middle of nowhere. It feels like a legend until you’ve discovered it. You can find it in a quiet corner tucked in a national park or high up in the mountains. But the route to get there is often treacherous or lined with isolation. Loneliness can be terrifying. But it’s a small price to pay to experience silence.
Over the past decade, we’ve tried to find places that are off the tourist grid. The vast emptiness of the Himalayan belt in Northern India, the Ring Road in Iceland, and the national parks of Central Mongolia are the loneliest places that we’ve visited so far. The inhospitable climate makes these places desolate and largely unoccupied. Tourists or travellers are the only people you’d see — when the weather is on your side.
Surprisingly, even tourist belts can have spots of isolation even if it’s for a brief instant in time. Sometimes you have to wait for the crowds to disappear (Nara) or climb further (The Great Wall) or head deep into a deserted forest (Pyeongchang). The rewards for that extra effort are always sweet.
It’s been hard to select few from the many wonderful places we visited. Here’s a walk down memory lane…
1. Chang La Mountain Pass – 17,590ft (5,360m)
“Silence is a source of Great Strength.”
― Lao Tzu
2. Monk’s Quarters in Nubra Valley
“Silence is better than unmeaning words.”
― Pythagoras
3. Yellow Tree in Nara Park
“In Silence there is eloquence. Stop weaving and see how the pattern improves.”
― Jalaluddin Mevlana Rumi
4. Kyoto in Autumn
“Whosoever is delighted in solitude, is either a wild beast or a god.”
― Aristotle
5. Kirkjubaejarklaustur Campsite
“Silence is golden when you can’t think of a good answer.”
― Muhammad Ali
6. Somewhere along the Ring Road
“If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad company.”
― Jean-Paul Sartre
7. Along the Li River
“I live in that solitude which is painful in youth, but delicious in the years of maturity.”
― Albert Einstein
8. Further Along the Great Wall
“Sometimes it’s in the quiet that we hear the loudest things.”
― Anonymous
9. Hidden Forest Trail in Pyeongchang
“There was a brief silence. I think I heard snow falling.”
― Erich Segal
1o. Khogno Khan National Park
This is such a lovely travel post from you! Agree silence can be hard to find these days. Maybe we avoid it because we are afraid of it, and some of us just don’t like being alone. I am an introvert and love my silence, and solo travel and traveling to remote places don’t scare me. So long as I have a plan to get back and forth and also an emergency backup plan, I am eager to go. These are quite a few quiet places you and Basil visited over the years. Amazing shots framing how vast these landscapes can be, making one feel insignificant. I gues that’s the beauty of being quite and far out somewhere – you learn that in the grander scheme of things, you aren’t always the most important person and there is always something or someone to look out to, watch and reflect upon 🙂
Hi Mabel! 🙂 I’m so glad you enjoyed reading it. I got nostalgic looking at all those pictures and remembering the trips. I’ve begun travelling solo more recently. It has its own advantages. With a travel partner, you need the right rhythm. Someone who understands when to keep quiet. 🙂 Over the years, Basil’s changed multiple cameras and continuously evolved as a photographer. And I’ve taken to photography too. We’ve grown as travellers together! Thank you for your wonderful comment. And I could have said the last line any better! Have wonderful week my friend! 🙂
Good luck with solo traveling! You can get all the space you need 😀 I do hope to see more your photography later this year, and it will be as great as Basil’s 🙂
Thanks a bunch, Mabel! ❤
What a beautiful post Cheryl. You have an amazing ability to transport me through your quotes, reflections and of course Basil’s stunning photography. Some of our best hikes have been in the quietest and remote of places. Nothing quite beats that feeling of being at one with nature. Thanks for taking us along for the ride and another inspiring piece. Hugs xo
I’m feeling tongue-tied right now! 🙂 Thank you for such a wonderful comment my friend. I truly enjoy your hikes and camping adventures! It’s inspirational! “Nothing quite beats that feeling of being at one with nature. ” I couldn’t agree more! Sending you big hugs back!
Aww, no need to be tongue tied around me. You and I are very much the same my friend. Big hugs xo
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Beautiful post!
Thank you, Anjali! ❤
You’ve given us so many beautiful options for silent reflection. I have only been to Nara Park and Kyoto so I have many more places to travel. The Einstein quote especially resonated with me.
Your reference to ‘always living in cities’ reminded me of a time when I could experience silence in the madness of New York (I grew so accustomed to it living there) and madness in the silence experienced when visiting a quiet suburb nearby (the silence was like a deafening scream I was so unused to it).
Hi Lisa! It’s always good to hear from you. Nara Park was beautiful and serene. Kyoto was packed with tourists, but we managed to find a few empty spots. The past few years have taken us to many wonderful places. It’s been such a rewarding experience. Your travels are also truly inspirational. So many wonderful places out there for us to explore!
We want to leave the ‘city’ in the near future and move to a smaller town with a good view. 🙂 Fingers crossed!
Oooo I am excited to know where you end up #watchingthisspace
Awww…I’m just dreaming! Basil doesn’t want to leave the city for the next couple of years. 😦
Dreams come true 😀
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Cheryl reading your post always guarantees some mesmerizing pictures. And that includes both urban and desolate places. You are a pro. Your pictures speak for themselves.
Basil’s photography creates that magic! 🙂 I’m happy to have his visuals guide my words. Thank you, Arvind! 🙂
Perfectly fine 👍
I remember when I was a child my parents took me to Carlsbad Caverns in New Mexico. The guide took us deep into the caverns then asked us to turn off our flashlights and be totally silent for a minute. I still remember the feeling of no noise and no light. It’s not something we get very often in this world.
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful experience from your childhood. 🙂 It must have been magical. I would have been a little scared of the dark though. 🙂
Stunning silent scenery, Cheryl. Being in the presence of Silence helps us to appreciate our surroundings and compels us to reflect on our spirituality. A lovely post with whispers of silence in the images.
Although, I’ve always struggled with faith and spirituality, I agree with you. In the midst of silence, I’m tempted to believe in higher powers or alternate consciousness. 🙂
I loved your selections. Also, your writing is always excellent, very interesting and insightful, and just very well composed. Great quotes too. As a philosophy nerd, I appreciated.
Thank you so much! Although I’ve always been a science nerd, I wish I could have studied psychology and philosophy also. 🙂
Catchy title! We have been to Nubra valley and it was pretty isolated. Crossing Khardungla was exhilarating.
Thanks, Nandita/Raga! Nubra Valley was such a gem. Khardungla was a little packed though. Many tourists want to just visit it, if not cross over to the other side. I preferred Baralacha Pass (Manali to Leh circuit). It was empty and covered with snow. Thanks for stopping by! 🙂
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Oh, I loved this! Thank you for sharing
Thank you! 🙂
Nice pics and quotes. But I gotta wonder, how many tries did it take to spell Kirkjubaejarklaustur?
It took me more than 3 tries and I knew something was wrong! lol. I had to Google the name and honestly, I don’t even know how to pronounce it! 🙂 I remember finding this hidden campsite on a travel blog (before I started our own blog). It was fantastic to actually go there, search for the site, and pitch a tent opposite a waterfall! By morning we were freezing. 🙂
Beautiful spots, Cheryl. Someday I may have to ask you a bunch of questions about northern India – I have had the Nubra Valley on my list for quite some time!
Thanks, Lexie! 🙂 Northern India (Ladakh, Uttarakhand, and Himachal Pradesh) is fantastic for treks and exploring the Himalayas. In Northeast India (another favourite) Arunachal Pradesh is a hidden gem. I could have lived in Nubra Valley. Unfortunately, most border states and villages require permits and they turn out to be overnight/day trips. I’d love answer your questions! 🙂
Beautiful photos and quotes
Thank you so much! 🙂
Lovely post.
Thank you, Sue! Happy 2018! 🙂
How apt! One thing that affects me nowadays is noise..it sometimes triggers my anxiety so I’ve had to learn how to cope with these noise bombarding my senses when I’m sensitive…so what I’ve been taught is that you don’t have to find a remote place to find silence, sometimes you can try to find it within yourself as well…(although I’ve not been quite successful in finding my silence but I’m trying) haha…maybe I should travel to one of these places to find inner peace instead? 🤔😄😆
Anxiety is such a bummer! I hope you’re coping well. I think what you might be referring to is ‘inner peace’. It’s one of the goals in meditation and the key to happiness. I’ve found inner peace in the most unlikely places. For example, a walk along the Han, during winter, can be such a rewarding experience. And it’s right in the centre of Seoul City! The loneliest places need not always bring you peace, even if, you might experience silence. Nubra Valley is in a conflict zone and you have pass by numerous army trucks to get there! It’s a bitter twist of sorts. So much beauty and silence with a tension hidden underneath it all. 😦 Have you tried yoga, meditation, or even calming chants? But you need to be in a quiet place. 🙂 All the best!
Ahh, yoga and meditation is not really my cup of tea but I do have ways to manage it. It’s just that noise can be a trigger sometimes with my condition so I try to avoid crowds as much as possible…I hope that it will eventually settle, perhaps when my condition has stabilised and I’m off my medication…:)
I love such peaceful and quiet places which is a hard thing to find these days, Cheryl! Exceptional post of some astonishing places you’ve been to!
Thanks, Agness! I would love to explore the places you’ve been to. 🙂